Tayla Bubeck
Connecting you with Conversations that have the ability to transform your life.
GUEST EPISODE
Lewis Huckstep
In this guest episode of Your Invisible Advantage, Tayla sits down with Lewis Huckstep to unpack what’s really happening underneath high achievement ~ and why success often comes with anxiety, burnout, and identity pressure.
Lewis shares his story from being diagnosed with autism/Asperger’s, ADHD, and anxiety, to becoming a relentless overachiever chasing external wins for internal safety ~ including running multiple gyms, building businesses, and eventually hitting a “dark night of the soul” moment that forced a complete rebuild.
This conversation is for high performers who look successful on paper… but feel flat, wired, or quietly exhausted behind the scenes.
You’ll hear about:
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Why insecurity is one of the most common fuel sources for high achievement
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The difference between the science of achievement and the art of fulfilment
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How to identify your true values (and why most people misunderstand what “values” are)
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Why anxiety isn’t random ~ it’s feedback from identity
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How “should” and “have to” language exposes living in someone else’s expectations
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Hustle seasons vs sustainable seasons — and what to actually optimise for
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Why missionaries outperform mercenaries long-term (and what that means for your business)
If you’ve been building success but feel like something is off — this episode will give you a language for what’s happening and a framework for what to do next.
GUEST EPISODE
Travis Cochran
In this episode of the Your Invisible Advantage Podcast, I sit down with Travis Cochran - known online as “The Technician” - to have a real conversation about leadership, growth, and what changes after you’ve already proven yourself.
This is the darker side of success that no one talks about, but everyone experiences... A must for anyone creating huge impact with their work and navigating real human challenges BTS,
We talk about:
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What it looks like to build a brand without the mask
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How to lead from groundedness instead of performance
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Why your old ambition might stop working and what to do when it does
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The hidden weight of being the strong one
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Vulnerability that empowers - without oversharing
This is the episode for anyone who feels like they’ve grown… but the way they show up still hasn’t caught up.
GUEST EPISODE
Hayley Lloyd
In this episode of Your Invisible Advantage, Tayla sits down with former coach and now founder of Inner Breath & Manifest, Hayley Lloyd, for a raw conversation about identity, pivoting, nervous system regulation, and what it really takes to build aligned success.
Hayley shares her journey from:
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Training as a digital designer
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Working at Canva during hyper-growth
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Scaling a 7-figure coaching business
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Shutting it down at its peak
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Following her intuition into spirituality, manifestation & nervous system work
This conversation dives into:
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The difference between resistance vs misalignment
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Why strategy isn’t your real problem
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How nervous system dysregulation blocks visibility & wealth
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Manifestation beyond “positive thinking”
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Pivoting publicly without losing yourself
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Overcoming addiction, trauma & rebuilding identity
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The truth about social media growth & energetic alignment
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Expanding your capacity for success
Hayley also shares the 6 principles behind her app and how regulating your nervous system increases your “window of tolerance” for wealth, visibility and growth.
If you’re feeling the nudge to evolve… but fear is keeping you stuck ~ this episode is for you.
GUEST EPISODE
Christina Harvey
In this episode of Your Invisible Advantage Podcast, Tayla sits down with Christina Harvey [Pengelly] for a grounded conversation about reinvention, identity shifts, and the quiet courage it takes to start again ~ even when you’re successful on paper.
The BIG question is - What happens when the life you built… no longer feels aligned?
Christina opens up about:
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Leaving the coaching industry after deep internal misalignment
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Navigating an identity crisis in your 30s
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Pivoting publicly and handling external opinions
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Transitioning into influencing and owning that evolution
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Family illness reshaping priorities and ambition
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Choosing more traditional relationship roles — consciously, not conditionally
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Redefining what success means as your values mature
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Letting go of validation to build a life that actually feels good
This isn’t a dramatic “burn it all down” story.
It’s about subtle misalignment. About growing out of identities that once fit.About choosing peace over performance.
If you’ve ever thought:
“I don’t want what I used to want anymore.”
This conversation will feel like permission. It's a MUST!
GUEST EPISODE
Tijana Bundalo
In this episode of the Your Invisible Advantage Podcast, Tayla sits down with Tijana Bundalo to unpack the shattering moments that could have defined her whole life… but didn’t.
From having an intimate video exposed without consent…to being ostracised and isolated in her own social circles…to rebuilding her life, identity, and self-worth from the ground up…
This isn’t a story about overcoming. It’s a conversation about who you become when you have no choice but to face yourself.
This episode is about what happens when your worst fear actually becomes reality.
Public humiliation.
Betrayal.
Judgement.
Being talked about, watched, and torn apart.
Inside this episode, we explore:
– What public humiliation actually does to your identity
– The psychological impact of betrayal and loss of trust
– How shame turns into self-destruction (and how to break it)
– The difference between collapsing vs rebuilding
– Why most people stay stuck in their past and how to move forward
– What it really takes to become emotionally resilient
– The truth about self-worth (and how it’s actually built)
– Why your hardest moments often become your greatest leverage
“If you run now, you will run forever.”
This episode isn’t light. But if you’ve ever felt judged, rejected, or defined by something in your past ~this will change how you see it.
GUEST EPISODE
Candy Kemp
In this episode of Your Invisible Advantage, Tayla sits down with Candy Kemp ~ 11-time founder and brand strategist ~ to break down what actually makes a brand work.
This episode of "Conversations with Success is not one to miss. This is about psychological brand building.
Because after building brands across fashion, food, skincare, and now her latest venture Doop ~ Candy has seen the pattern most founders miss:
Some brands take off. Most don’t. And it’s rarely for the reasons people think.
Inside this conversation:
– What building 11 businesses actually teaches you (that no course will)
– Why most brands get ignored ~ even when they look “good”
– The moment Candy realised brand was the real lever behind growth
– What “cult-like branding” actually looks like in practice
– The difference between attention… and real brand attachment
– How she’s building her new brand Doop from the ground up (and what she’s doing differently)
– What founders misunderstand about what makes something last
This isn’t about logos, colour palettes, or surface-level strategy. It’s about building something people recognise, remember, and come back to.
If you’re building a personal brand, product, or business ~ this episode will recalibrate how you think about brand entirely.
GUEST EPISODE
Tyla Brimblecombe
In this episode of Your Invisible Advantage, Tayla sits down with Tyla Brimblecombe ~ a content strategist and founder who built a highly successful online business… and chose to walk away from it. Not because it failed. Because it stopped feeling right.
Her inner intuition was telling her “this isn't it!"
This is a conversation about the part most people skip ~ the in-between. She Walked Away From a Successful Business… With No Plan
The moment where:
– You’ve built something that works
– You know it’s not aligned anymore
– And you don’t yet know what comes next
Most people wait until they’ve “figured it out” to speak.
Tyla shares what it actually looks like to be in it.
Inside this episode:
– What it really takes to walk away from something successful
– The difference between something working vs something being right
– Why high performers stay too long in things they’ve outgrown
– The reality of navigating uncertainty without a clear plan – Letting go of identity when it’s tied to your success
– The pressure of having to “figure it out”
– What self-trust actually looks like in real time
This isn’t about having answers. It’s about learning to move without them.
If you’re in a season where things look good on paper… but feel off internally ~ this conversation will hit, DEEP.
This is The Identity Crisis No One Talks About After Success…..
GUEST EPISODE
Nerida Bindt
In this episode of the Your Invisible Advantage Podcast, Tayla sits down with Nerida Bindt ~ emotional intelligence educator, speaker, and mentor ~ to unpack the one thing that quietly impacts everything:
How you think, how you lead, how you build, and how you handle pressure.
This isn’t about surface-level mindset work. This episode is for the woman who is doing the work… but still feels like something isn’t fully clicking.
It’s about understanding the patterns, reactions, and internal dynamics that either move your life forward… or keep you repeating the same cycles.
Inside this episode, we explore:
Why emotional intelligence is the missing piece for so many high-performing women
The gap between knowing what to do and actually changing
How emotional patterns show up in business, leadership, and decision-making
What it really looks like to lead yourself when things aren’t working
The first step to breaking patterns that keep repeating
If you’ve ever felt like: “I know better… so why am I still here?” This conversation will land.
GUEST EPISODE
Alex Ivkovic
In this episode of Your Invisible Advantage Podcast, Tayla sits down with Alex Ivkovic for a conversation every high performer needs to hear.
This isn’t about hustle. It’s not about scaling faster.
It’s about the season no one wants - the pullback.
If you’re someone who:
Is always the strong one
Holds everyone else together
Knows better… but doesn’t always do better
Keeps pushing when your body is asking you to pause Thinks the next level will fix the feeling
This episode is for you.
Tayla and Alex unpack:
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Why every expansion requires a contraction
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The nervous system patterns of high achievers
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Why “more” doesn’t solve internal pressure
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The psychology behind knowing better but not doing better Why high performers struggle to rest
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The identity crisis that can come with slowing down
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The pullback season before the breakthrough
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Who holds you when you’re the one holding everyone else
Success isn’t linear. And the pullback isn’t failure.
It’s often the very thing that allows your next level to exist.
If you’re in a season where things feel slower, quieter, or heavier ~ this conversation will reframe it for you.
GUEST EPISODE
Travis Cochran
& Justin Hughes
In this episode of Your Invisible Advantage, Tayla sits down with Travis Cochran and Justin Hughes for a conversation that went somewhere completely unexpected.
What started as a discussion on content and branding…turned into a real-time unpacking of identity, pressure, and what it actually feels like behind success.
This episode explores the tension most people don’t talk about:
– Building something that works… but feeling disconnected from it
– The pressure to perform, provide, and “be someone”
– Why trust is becoming more valuable than content
– The shift from performance → authenticity
– The identity crisis that comes when you slow down
– Why people are walking away from businesses (and getting shamed for it)
– The reality of being constantly visible and accessible
– The difference between connection vs attention in personal branding
– AI, authenticity, and the future of human content
There’s a moment in this episode where the conversation shifts ~from strategy… to something much deeper.
“99% of brand conversations are happening without you in the room.”
Which means your reputation, your presence, and your realness matter more than ever.
This isn’t a polished conversation. It’s a real one. So much so we didn't even do an introduction we got too caught up...
GUEST EPISODE
Tijana Bundalo
In this episode of the Your Invisible Advantage Podcast, in my guest series “Conversations with Success”, I sit down with Tijana Bundalo for part two of our conversation
- and this time we go deeper into the real issue behind so many women staying stuck:
self-worth.
Not the fluffy version. Not the aesthetic social media version.The real version.
The part that affects:
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how you lead
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how you love
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how you show up in business
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how you handle discomfort
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and whether you actually trust yourself to move forward
Inside this episode, we unpack:
– the two types of women Tijana sees most in her work
– why some women stay stuck in healing for years
– the difference between self-development and real embodiment
– how low self-worth shows up in business, ambition, and relationships
– why women overcommit, underdeliver, and lose trust in themselves
– how shame, secrecy, and self-judgement keep patterns alive
– the real reason awareness alone doesn’t create change
– what it actually takes to rebuild self-trust and safety from within
This episode is for the woman who has done the work…but knows there’s still a gap between what she understands and how she actually lives.
Because as Tijana says, some women are driven and successful, but still operate from self-loathing instead of self-love. And until that changes, the external success never fully feels safe.
GUEST EPISODE
Erin May Henry
In this episode of Your Invisible Advantage, I sit down with Erin May Henry to unpack one of the biggest problems facing entrepreneurs and creators today: losing yourself while trying to become successful.
What if the reason your business feels hard isn't your strategy...it's that you've built a version of yourself that isn't actually you?
We dive into why so many personal brands end up looking identical, how the coaching industry accidentally encouraged people to copy instead of create,
and why the people who build the strongest brands are usually the ones brave enough to become more themselves - not less.
We also talk about:
• Becoming "the coolest person you know"
• Reinventing yourself publicly
• Building a business around your natural strengths
• Why authenticity isn't a marketing strategy - it's an identity
• Creator archetypes and finding your natural content style
• Why following gurus often makes your content worse
• The psychology behind confidence, hobbies and self-trust
• Creating content that actually feels like you
If you've ever felt like you've lost yourself while trying to grow online, this conversation is for you.
GUEST EPISODE
Jacob Cox [my partner]
In this episode of the Your Invisible Advantage Podcast, in my guest series “Conversations with Success”, I sit down with my partner Jacob Cox for a conversation all about our relationship (because we get so many questions!)
So... What actually keeps a relationship together after 9 years? With no ring, no kids, nothing tying us down...
For this episode of Your Invisible Advantage, I'm sitting down with someone I've never had on the podcast before... my partner, Jacob Cox.
We've been together for nine years. We're not married. We don't have children. We've built businesses, bought and sold property, taken financial risks, sacrificed a lot, made money, spent money, changed our minds and grown into very different versions of the people who first met.
And through all of it, we've continued to choose each other.
This isn't an episode about having the "perfect relationship."
It's a conversation about what we've personally learned from building a life alongside another person for almost a decade.
We talk about how we met, whether we knew we'd found "the one," the parts of each other people don't see, and the relationship advice we think actually matters after nine years together.
We also get into the conversations people are always curious about:
~ Why aren't we married?
~ Do we actually know whether we want children?
~ What happens when the woman becomes the breadwinner?
~ Who controls our finances?
~ Do we share money or keep it separate?
~ How does Jacob feel about how much I work?
~ Where does he take the lead in our relationship?
~ How have we built wealth through property and risk?
~ Why did we sacrifice so much financially in the early years?~ How do we think differently about money?
~ And how do you build a relationship that isn't based on keeping score?
One of my favourite ideas from this conversation is simple:
Don't just find someone you want to thrive with. Find someone you're willing to suffer with.
Because nine years won't only contain the holidays, money, beautiful houses and wins.
There will be setbacks. Financial pressure. Family shit. Career changes. Sacrifice. Arguments. Different seasons. Different ambitions. And versions of each other neither of you met at the beginning.
Longevity isn't about never changing.
Maybe it's about finding someone you can keep changing beside.
GUEST EPISODE
Jackson Edwards [JT Visuals]
In this episode of Your Invisible Advantage, we explore the psychology of high performance, leadership, entrepreneurship, decision making, and what it really takes to build a successful business.
In this episode I sit down with Jackson Edwards - founder of JT Visuals and JT Studio Haus - to unpack the mindset behind elite performance.
From professional sport to entrepreneurship, leadership, fatherhood and building one of Australia's fastest-growing podcast and content studios, Jackson shares the lessons that keep showing up regardless of the industry.
What separates exceptional people from everyone else?
It's probably not talent... So, is it Obsession?
In this episode we unpack exactly what it takes.
We dive into:
• Why successful people "move differently"
• The hidden cost of ambition
• Why obsession often beats talent
• How elite athletes think under pressure
• Why adaptability is the greatest business skill
• The sacrifices nobody talks about
• Leadership, mistakes and building a team
• Why balance isn't always the goal
• Building a life around purpose instead of comfort
If you're trying to build something meaningful, this conversation will challenge the way you think about success.